Life's a dress-up party, where everyone wants to flaunt their unique mask. But not everyone is maybe up for stealing the limelight and becoming the talk of the town, some might appreciate the simple pleasure of blending in. Both approaches are cool, as long as you and your partner are doing the same chance pe dance.
The real trouble kicks in when one half of the jodi is trying too hard to be the standout.
Now, don't get me wrong; I'm all for couples who are as different as Aditya and Geet from Jab We Met but fit together like jigsaw puzzle pieces. One's a delicate daisy, the other a blazing siren – a match made in heaven. But here's the twist – the partner who's so lost in their own uniqueness that they forget it might make others do the classic head tilt. The one who's committed to the "I am so cool" vibe that they end up looking like the village jester and pull you into the spotlight too. Picture this – how many times have your friends raised an eyebrow at your "unique" partner? "Are you sure?" "You can do better." And when things go south, the same pals drop a bomb with, "Have you lost your mind?" It stings, and you find yourself defending the person you pursued over an app, only to face this scrutiny?
Here's the truth – a person who disregards your dignity in public, who lacks sensitivity towards your feelings, your friends, and your family, might not be the hero or heroine of your life story. Better apart than part of a horror film.